“I found something new and strange of my wife. I can ‘t see her chat logs in my computer these days, you know, we share it as the home machine. It seems that she cleaned them up after she had finished use. That’s what she never did before. And, as I see, most of the time, she uses phone to chat by spending much more time and money on sending texting message. Never talks on the phone before me anymore, never logs in AOL and MSN when I am at home anymore, never lets me know what she did online anymore…just like she has turned or twisted her habit in a short time. I asked her for why but no responses. I know there is something wrong, but I don’t know what it is…”

I was recieving grumbles and gossips from one of my friend, Randy. By his telling, I got to know that he is facing emotional crises with his wife. Exactly speaking, Randy doubts that his once-devoted wife is cheating on him, and certainly, he endeavors to get this right but has no idea where to begin. I could not sit back and do nothing about it. After somedays of inquires and extraction, I fixed a private detective. Just when I plan to inform him the contact information of the private detective, he came to me and shocked me with a piece of news: he had been told to install a software tool to monitor his computer!

Upon further acquaintance, I finally make it clear that the software tool he installed is a kind of keylogger software, which is usually used as parental control software. Keystroke logger(often called keylogger) is a tool for tracking(or logging) the keys pressed on a keyboard, typically in a covert manner so that the person using the keyboard is unaware that their actions are being monitored. There are numerous keyloggers, in which the software-based keyloggers are most comprehensive used. They are software programs designed to work on the target computer’s operating system. The latest keylogger software can even capture screenshots, send log emails or monitor computers with remote installation.

It seems a way, but does it really work? However, when I am still questioning its practicability, Randy told me with a subdued heart that he had found some unpleasant evidence of his wife’s recent abnormality. “What a shame!”, I murmured. But Randy replied:” It’s a shame that we are breaking, but not a shame I found what she had done to me. Even if I ‘d rather it would not be true, my senses tell me that it ’s better to learn the truth!”

On the one hand I, as Randy ’s friend, feel sorry for his sufferings; on the other hand, I wonder at the high technology of information. With so creative development, we are provided such cheap Pinkertons for assisting in digging out the truth.

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I suspected my wife of cheating on me and installed spy software on our shared, home computer. I quickly found explicit evidence (both pictures and messages) that she was meeting and having sex with different men from sex chats. I also found out that she started sending pictures of our child to some of the men she was meeting with.

Can this kind of electronic evidence be used in court? If the content leaves no doubts whatsoever, would the judge still dismiss it, only because I have collected it without my my wife’s consent?

Could anyone recommend to me any law firms in London that might have experience with this kind of cases?

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>> no, you were invading her privacy

what rights does the man have in such situations?
9 hours ago

>> As direct evidence - I doubt. I would say - no.

how about the fact of her sending out pictures our child to men met on sex forums?

you can’t have ‘direct’ evidence, can you? this by definition ‘virtual’; and still the implications could be very real

Suspicion is strong emotion which is easily to be found and this may result in some tracks of the suspicion.
This helps cheaters to be more carefull on their affairs.

Signs of a Cheating Wife

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy. 2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
4) She buys herself new underwear.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down.
7) She’s unconventionally spending money on new clothes.
She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring.

Signs of a Cheating Husband

1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s home.
His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse

1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy”
You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

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