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We all have close friends of the opposite sex that we pour our hearts out to and hang out with. It is perfectly acceptable in today’s society for men and women to be platonic friends. You may have your priorites sorted but can you say the very same for your other half?

With the openness of today’s society, how come you still feel that strange feeling everytime your significant half got a call from that his/her close friend? Maybe there was this person in particular that made you uncomfortable for reasons you can’t quite exactly put your finger on but not other close friends of his/her. How do you explain that?

Sometimes we have out instinct and they can tell you things you couldn’t see. If you are having any doubts about whether your spouse are cheating with someone close and you just can’t lay it to rest until you know for sure, check him out for alert signs below:

Observe the way they interact. Do they talk softly and laugh out loud on things that seems ‘exclusive’ to them? It would be odd, even rude to do that when other people (including you) were present and not know what they were talking about.

Are there a lot of flirtations going back and forth like touching, play fighting, hugging and whispering taking place? Well this is obvious but if you caught them interacting at this level when left alone, you have good reasons to probe further.

Who do your spouse confide in - you or this other person. Sometimes who we tell our heart contents out to depends on how well we can talk over the issue with a person. It may be fine if your spouse wish to have a little session of heart-to-heart with the friend on issues you already know and talked about. The problem only start when this friend actually know more than you do about your spouse because he/she has chosen to tell the ‘friend’ over you.

If you are part of the problem, it is natural to not consult you but it also give direct authority for this other person to barge in into your private lives. This will be very threatening to your position as the spouse and is highly indicative of cheating, if not internal problems in your marriage that may lead to cheating anyway. 

When you experience this, you are actually experiencing symptoms of withdrawal exhibited by your spouse. It is a communication breakdown, a form of separation really. And if this other person have any ill intention to separate you two then he/she has got the advantage to sabotage it by poisoning your spouse’s mind.

Other than the being the lustful creature we all are regardless of gender, men (still) cheat more often than women. Why is that so? Some say its in their genes, some people even think it’s normal for men to cheat! Whatever the reason is, it is the women that will be blamed (whether it’s the other woman, or the wife). This is more apparently so in certain societies.

It is a sad thing that wives blame themselves for their husbands’ infidelity. Thoughts of her husbands touching another woman and how they should have done better will race through their heads pounding like a 300 pounds gorilla. Don’t be. Because men are not as complicated as women.They just do, they don’t think. You can be the best wife or girlfriend in the world but that will not guarantee that your husband won’t cheat.

If Opportunity’s Knocking…

Your husband may be tempted to cheat just because there is an opportunity for him to do so. We love to blame the other woman for throwing herself at our husbands, but the truth is, it’s his fault too. You can call it submission to seduction, indiscipline, not thinking straight and so on but there’s no denying that men do think with their prick, not their head. He may just be flattered that he is wanted by another woman.

Especially When He’s With His Bunch Of ‘Friends’….

If men were vehicles, they will be fueled by either ego or alcohol. Combine these two and you get a killer. You know the deal. A few guys got a bit high and drunk. Stupid dares were thrown around.

Well, maybe not in this dramatic fashion but guys generally love to dare their mate to ‘go for it’, making mocking statements like “you’re not afraid of your wife, aren’t you?” or “man, I bet you’re too chicken to buy that cute chick a drink”.

Heck, his friend may even be comparing notes or just boasting about their ‘forbidden’ adventure. It takes a man with a straight head (not easy after a few drinks) and high self-control to see beyond the heat of his friends’ remark. It’s sort of like a throphy to them in a way.

Maybe He’s Just Curious…Or Bored…

This is where the men is likely to throw the ball back to his wife (or at least that’s what he tell the other woman). Maintaining passion in a marriage is both parties’ responsibility. Anyway, once they cheat, they’ll love to use this as an excuse anyway.