Other than the being the lustful creature we all are regardless of gender, men (still) cheat more often than women. Why is that so? Some say its in their genes, some people even think it’s normal for men to cheat! Whatever the reason is, it is the women that will be blamed (whether it’s the other woman, or the wife). This is more apparently so in certain societies.

It is a sad thing that wives blame themselves for their husbands’ infidelity. Thoughts of her husbands touching another woman and how they should have done better will race through their heads pounding like a 300 pounds gorilla. Don’t be. Because men are not as complicated as women.They just do, they don’t think. You can be the best wife or girlfriend in the world but that will not guarantee that your husband won’t cheat.

If Opportunity’s Knocking…

Your husband may be tempted to cheat just because there is an opportunity for him to do so. We love to blame the other woman for throwing herself at our husbands, but the truth is, it’s his fault too. You can call it submission to seduction, indiscipline, not thinking straight and so on but there’s no denying that men do think with their prick, not their head. He may just be flattered that he is wanted by another woman.

Especially When He’s With His Bunch Of ‘Friends’….

If men were vehicles, they will be fueled by either ego or alcohol. Combine these two and you get a killer. You know the deal. A few guys got a bit high and drunk. Stupid dares were thrown around.

Well, maybe not in this dramatic fashion but guys generally love to dare their mate to ‘go for it’, making mocking statements like “you’re not afraid of your wife, aren’t you?” or “man, I bet you’re too chicken to buy that cute chick a drink”.

Heck, his friend may even be comparing notes or just boasting about their ‘forbidden’ adventure. It takes a man with a straight head (not easy after a few drinks) and high self-control to see beyond the heat of his friends’ remark. It’s sort of like a throphy to them in a way.

Maybe He’s Just Curious…Or Bored…

This is where the men is likely to throw the ball back to his wife (or at least that’s what he tell the other woman). Maintaining passion in a marriage is both parties’ responsibility. Anyway, once they cheat, they’ll love to use this as an excuse anyway.

Signs of a Cheating Wife

1) You find birth-control pills in her medicine cabinet, and you’ve had a vasectomy. 2) She sets up a new e-mail account and doesn’t tell you about it.
3) She goes to the store for groceries and comes home 5 hours later.
4) She buys herself new underwear.
5) She sets up a separate cell phone account that is billed to her office.
6) The toilet bowl seat is up, and when you left home it was down.
7) She’s unconventionally spending money on new clothes.
She stops confiding in you and seeking advice from you.
9) She stops wearing her wedding ring.

Signs of a Cheating Husband

1) He carries condoms, and you are on the pill.
2) He insists the child seat, toys, etc., are kept out of his car.
3) You find a long blonde hair on the seat of his car.
4) You find unexplained scratches or bruises on his neck or back.
5) He suddenly wants to try new love techniques.
6) He works a lot of overtime, but it never shows up on the pay stub.
7) He throws up a lot because he just ate at his mistress’s home.
His clothes smell of an unfamiliar perfume.
9) You see lipstick on your husband’s shirt.

Signs of a Cheating Spouse

1) He/She shows a sudden interest in a different type of music.
2) Spouse’s co-workers are uncomfortable in your presence.
3) He/She has a sudden preoccupation with his or her appearance.
4) Spends an excessive amount of time on the computer when you are asleep.
5) The amount of money being deposited into your checking account drops off.
6) You find items of intimate apparel that you did not give your spouse.
7) Your spouse seems less comfortable around you and is “touchy”
You get calls where the caller hangs up when he or she hears your voice.
9) He/she has a definite change in attitude towards everyone in the home.
10) He/She uses a low voice or whisper on the phone or hangs up quickly.
11) Begins to delete all incoming phone calls from the caller ID.
12) Deletes all incoming e-mails when they used to accumulate.
13) Picks fights in order to stomp out of the house.

How to Catch a Cheating Spouse?

Don’t be a victim, you deserve better!

If you are a spouse who suspects your partner might be having an affair, wants to find out if he/she is telling the truth or has a need to discover details of the affair, we recommend that you begin with spying on your partner online with a stealth monitoring spy software.

Generally, spy software is a surveillance tool which allows you to secretly monitor and record user’s activities on computer, and it is completely legal. Spytech Real-time spy is a perfect one. With this easy to use spy software, you will be able to see exactly what your spouse has been doing online and off-line just like you are looking at the computer monitor over his/her shoulder! It allows you to record keystrokes, e-mails, online conversation, password, Web site, and take screen snapshots at intervals like a surveillance camera, and deliver spy logs to you via E-mail or FTP at set intervals.

All you need to do is just install it on your home computer and press a simple click! This powerful computer spy program can run in stealth mode and is password protected, so your spouse is NOT aware of its existence, and the password can prevent him/her from terminating or uninstalling this program, and it does not require you to have advanced computer skills at all!

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